Family doesn't know when my wedding is

My extended family keeps asking me when my wedding is, even after I sent a Save the Date in July 2024. Our wedding is May 24, 2025. No, our wedding invites have not been sent out yet as we have another tasting tomorrow at our venue, as they didn't allow for us to try everything. We need a vegan option, and we were only able to try a vegetarian option at the tasting 2 weeks ago. How many more times do I need to say it though?

I frowned at the most recent message from my aunt asking when the wedding is, who had already asked over the weekend when I saw her. Is this what it's really like? I guess it's true, no one cares about this thing we've been planning for over a year now- at least not enough to remember the date.