I'm sorry, I've had it.
I'm level 49 and just finished fully joining the Nightingales. I've been trading in Falkreath and living out of Lakeside Manor, so I frequent Gray Pine Goods after adventures to sell off goods, and work on my alchemy.
It's clear that Solar and I don't share ideals, I'm also pretty sure he just tolerates me, being a Khajiit. But we have a transactional business relationship.
His brother, Bolund however is just a class act. Everytime I open the door, he's there, bitching about me existing. Flabbergasted I'm allowed to be alive and walking around in his Nord presence.
This time however, I followed him to his stupid logging operation to help him get some work done for once.
I even gave him one of the pointy sticks I was carrying. Then he fell asleep. So I kept working.
He hasn't woken up yet.