Unpopular opinion , I hate spike/buffy

I think that relationship was bad to begin with because it started as Buffy just using him to feel something and ended (in my opinion) when he tried to rape her. I remember I started the series on Netflix when I was ten years old and couldn’t get past the rape part, I’m 26 now did a rewatch recently still can’t stand them together

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I thought of another point it takes away from angel and Buffy and angel originally having a soul to have her eventually fall in love with no soul spike, another vampire, at that point in the series it should have been a one and done on vampire/slayer relationships