Is she ghosting me if I stopped initiating conversations and she doesn’t even reach out to see what’s up with me?

It’s getting tiring to always initiate the convos. It feels like I’m the one having to one to move forward and it’s affecting my self esteem. She replies immediately as long as it’s a reasonable time. But she rarely initiates convos and we’re hitting a wall in terms of our convos. If I stopped initiating altogether, and wait that she initiates at least one but she didn’t - is she ghosting me? Or am I the asshole in this situation?

For context we are just in a talking stage and have been in one date only.