Seeking Advice for First Ritual!!!

Hello! My friend and I are going to our first rituals this summer. We have tickets to 3 shows, one in WA and the two in LA. We have Imperium VIP pit tickets for the WA and the first LA show with the second LA show being seat tickets. We want to have the opportunities to potentially get ciriced by papa at one and mummy dusted by Dewdrop at the other. The venue for the WA show is much smaller than the LA one and there are still lots of tickets available so we believe that we have the best chance of getting anything like that at the WA one. Only downside to being on the Dew's side of the stage in the hopes of being mummy dusted is that we most likely won't be able to see ghouls like Swiss who we also very much want to be able to see and record but won't get the opportunity to do at the LA shows due to the no filming policy. We have around two months to figure out what we want to do but are a bit at a loss right now and wanted to ask some experienced ritual goers for help!