Video Games in a God-Honoring Marriage

Good afternoon everyone, my wife (24) and I (24) will have been married for 2 years this March. I have had video games as a hobby since I was a kid and I have struggled to find a balance in my marriage for them. I work an 8-5 job on the weekdays along with attending church on Sundays (deacon duties, teaching Sunday school, worship ministry) and Wednesdays (worship practice, kids ministry, bible study). Some evenings are more free than others and that is usually when I will sit down to play for a little bit. My wife is not very into games at all, which makes her feel excluded/ignored when I am playing them. We recently sat down and talked about this and we weren't able to come to a solid answer on what the right balance of video games to quality time with one another is. Currently, I spend a total of about 1-2 hours a week playing video games, usually in brief 15-20 minute sessions so that I am not preoccupied for too long.

More than anything, I want to honor the Lord and my wife in the time that I devote to things, and through the things that I devote my time to. Please let me know if any of you have had similar conversations/experiences with your spouse.

EDIT: We currently do not have kids, although we are planning on having some in the next few years,