Just when you thought you figured out the moment you knew they had BPD

Out of the blue you think of another time that pointed to when it all started. I never realized just how early they showed traits of BPD behavior. They were there almost immediately into our relationship. The constant making me feel guilty for not being able to spend every waking moment with they in the beginning. I took it as they just really wanted to be around me that bad. It was classic BPD.

As soon as I gave them what they wanted they did a complete uno reverse on me and became more and more unavailable to me to the point I was the one begging for any type of time with them. It was a calculated plan from the start. Let my guard down, made me think I had someone that really cared and wanted me, then they used that to completely tear me down

Just insight now on how these people methodically operate. They’re more calculated than I think we give them credit for even if they’re not aware of it themselves. They have a plan, they know what they’re doing even if they don’t know what they’re doing if that makes sense

*Edited to keep out gender pronouns. You never if they’re keeping track of your posts