How do I choosing a football team?,Around Doncaster /Barnsley area.

So I live in place where Doncaster Rovers are around 12 miles away, Barnsley 11 miles away, Sheffield clubs about 30 miles away.

I'm a Middlesbrough fan myself but fallen out of love at football at that level.I'll always be a boro fan but just get no enthusiasm for it now.

I have two young children and would like to take them to games soon which team would be best and how do you decide how to. Choose a team when so many are close by?

Anyone been to any of these clubs, what are the grounds like family friendly?, good food choice?, any of them have a decent atomshere?