Older Bottoms, what ended up happening to you? How did you adapt with age?

Hello everyone.

I'm a full time bottom and was slow to get into the dating world. I started dating at 25 when I was still something of a "twink" and in my late twenties as a "twunk". I don't identify with these terms, although I recognize that many do and it affects how one is perceived in gay dating culture/hookups.

I am now 32 and I'm single yet again. I'm still in good shape but the inevitable aging is taking me out of the "twunk" stage and I'm wondering what comes next.

My hair is going gray, my face isn't so youthful and I'm in a new period of life.

I wanted to ask the bottoms who are ahead of me in the process - how did things go? Was it harder to find partner(s) as you got older? Is having gray hair in your thirties an anathema to being a successful bottom? How did you adapt with age?