AIO: I (27M) cried because she (28F) didn't give me goodnight kiss?

We dated for 3 years and things have been on and off. Recently it's been bit better with no arguements. For context, I hardly cry during our relationship, only when something passionate triggers me which makes me really emotionally sensitive.

Anyways, yesterday we had a what appeared to be a decent day together. After work we took care of her clients cats together, had dinner, and went home to play on phone chill and sleep. It was really cold yesterday so I drove her around so she wouldn't have to walk places to places like her first cat sitting place , dinner, and the second cat sitting place. When we were gonna call it a night, I went for a goodnight kiss and she kept dodging it. And I asked her what's wrong, she said nothing, she didn't feel like giving it.

This made me visibly upset because goodnight kiss means A LOT to me as my love language I really appreciate physical touch and words of affirmation which she obviously didn't do. I felt like lack of respect and love cause I always tell her about my love language and she's inconsistent with acknowledging it.

I started crying and decided to sleep on the coach. She asked what's wrong and I had a breakdown yelled at her how 'I don't like how I'm always making efforts for her to make her happy like waking up early to clean our cats vomit, offering to drive her to places when it's cold, etc, I do it because I love her. But when she doesn't want to give me goodnight kiss and not able to tell me what's wrong, it made me feel hurt. She had no response and the next morning we gave each other the cold shoulder. AIO?

For disclaimer, this isn't the first time she didn't wanna give a goodnight kiss cause she didn't feel like it. Every time it happens, it ends up with her saying the same thing and me feeling hurt